I am doing an experiment. I am trying to appreciate the "quiddity" of things, people and events I encounter each day. Quiddity means the "what-ness" of a thing, that is, what it really is, as opposed to what you might expect or want it to be. It's the dogginess of dogs, the Winteriness of Winter, the sheer toastiness of toast.
The trick is not only to recognise the essence of a thing, but to actively appreciate it. This is easy with dogs when they are playing or sitting at your feet looking up adoringly, but not so easy when they are throwing up on the carpet. I am doing well with toast, though.
At the moment I am trying to appreciate the raininess of the rain, instead of blaming it for not being sunshine. I am cheating by doing this through a window - even for an experiment I am not going outside with this virus I have now had for 2 weeks. (Could anyone really appreciate the fluiness of flu, I wonder?)
This idea, by the way, is not original. I found it in the writings of two authors I am very fond of: GK Chesterton and CS Lewis. Both apparently were known to go out walking in the wildest weather (and this is in England, mind you) just for the sheer exhuberance they got from the experience. Lewis wrote that he loved weather - not any particular kind, just weather. As I was complaining about the weather in my last post, I thought I'd give his way a try.
I thought appreciating the chookiness of chooks would be easy. I love the way they wander around burbling happily and pecking here and there, the way they fluff out their feathers, even the way they suddenly take fright at absolutely nothing and hurtle across the yard at top speed, yellow legs pumping and wings flapping madly. But yesterday the chookiness of chooks was a bit of a trial.
Our three ladies had the brilliant idea that the wattle tree would make a much better place to roost on a winter night than their snug, safe chook dome. Only a chook could think this. And once they were there, their chookiness meant they were not budging. They were too high to reach and the branches were too thin for me to climb. I shook the tree. They crouched lower on the branch and gripped tighter. I poked them with a garden stake. They flapped and complained, but stayed put. I lectured them sternly on how stupid they were being. They were deaf to my insults. Finally, in desperation I shook and poked at the same time, and they finally decided this tree wasn't such a great place after all and flew down. They then followed me into their house and hopped in as if nothing unusual had happened at all. I'm not sure I can think of a way to appreciate this...
Here they are behaving much better in the vegie garden. They've really changed from those little fluffballs we brought home in January.

Thank you, Kylie and Berys, for your comments. It's easy to appreciate the quiddity of you!
Lyn.